The ballad of the independent woman

The miss independent woman. This is the woman who studied hard to build up impeccable credentials at school. She graduated cum laude and never focused on any other aspect of her life but exceeding her male counterpart in the workforce. She looks down on being the traditional housewife and mother because since times changed she feels she should, due to her believing anything a man can do she could better mentality, be as equal to the man. She works hard and plays none. She is more ready and willing to have multiple sex partners because since the men do why can’t women so therefore its perfectly fine. Men are embracing her and singing songs about her not because they respect and want to marry her but only because men don’t want to men true men and has slowly downgraded their role in society. Men nowadays can’t handle the pressure. They didn’t have a father in the household and only saw the mother being a strong woman only because she had to be. They need help so what only way to ask for help in being a man is to delusion women into thinking they could be the boss right along with them. This independent lady fell right into the trap. This lady struggled, suffered and persevered in her 20s, 30s and even her 40s and 50s only to find herself INDEPENDENT! She doesn’t know she has been lied to, by unhappy women and lesbians, into thinking its good to be the captain of the ship, miss boss woman in the office and getting artificial insemination. She is starting to see there are a high number of women from all races and backgrounds are prospering in the workforce but are lonely, desperate, unhappy and bitter. “Where are all the men?” she said. “I thought guys loved independent women. I thought they liked when a women pays for everything. Takes care of her own bills, runs her own office, very opinionated and doesn’t take any slack from a man that is beneath her socially, financially and educationally.” She notices these same guys that praised women for their feminism are marrying the exact opposite of them! As time goes this woman gets sad, more unhappy and so desperate she is more inclined to take just about any man in order to fill that void she ignored for so long due to her wanting to compete with the men. Still sort of unhappy she asked other men why they didn’t want to marry her. One guy in particular told her, “Well let me put it like this, if you’re on a ship, the man is the captain and you are the captain who’s tending to the ship? You might feel why can’t the man tend to the ship and the lady be the captain but truth be told it’s not natural. Women by nature are nurturing and sweet but now you independent women want to act like men, talk like men, dress like men, be like men. If you’re taking care of everything then you don’t need us. Just as it’s also wrong for a man to take care of everything. We need each other in order for us to complete each other in different ways. You cannot forget the man’s home is his castle (the captain) and the woman is the queen (co-captain). As long as the woman got a great man that truly loves her, cherishes her, respects her, go to the end of the world with her, appreciates her, marries her, raises a family with her, sacrifices for her, protects her, fights for her then there should be no problem for the woman to let the man be captain of the ship and she sits on the side making sure the man is fit for battle. The role of the woman is different from the role of a man. The problem is the woman wants to take our role and some men are letting it happen, therefore disrupting the natural process of life. It’s kind of hard for a man to be a man and feel like a man when our job is taken away. Those men say they like independent women but secretly they like you only because they don’t want to take care of you like you should because like you say ‘you can take care of yourself.’ Don’t get it twisted it’s good to have your own but when you start thinking your better than us and can be us it’s wrong and sickening. That’s why the divorce rates are so high because the roles have changed and not for the better. You have learned how to be a good worker, a good student, a good lover, a good boss, a good girlfriend but never learned how to be a humble and satisfied WOMAN!” The woman left feeling sad about life and went home to her work and her guy. He told her being independent was ok and she felt a little better. Time went by they got married. She felt her life was good until she found out her husband was on the down low and gave her AIDS. She divorced him. As she was sitting in her big home she bought and paid for she couldn’t help but to wonder, “I guess this is what it means to be independent.”

President Obama........the real reason why he won

Greetings to all! I must start off by saying congrats to Barack Obama for winning president......or did he? I must admit and I will post this but does anybody stop to think that if Obama was a true black man with a black mother, a black father, black sisters, black brothers, black grandparents and black uncles and aunts would he have made it? We can't forget Obama is half white and HALF AFRICAN!!! All throughout earlier american history whites made this notion in their heads that if you have a drop of black blood in you then you're black type of mentality। Even though they felt this way they were still sort of accepting of you if you're half and half. They called these people mulatto. I can't really called Obama my first black president if he's not a true black man. I'm not hating..........I'm just saying........Obama was already chosen to be president because he knows how to play the game and the government knows something about him that we don't. We cannot forget Obama will not run this country. Our whole government system is ran by The Rockefellers, The Goldmans, The Sachs and other wealthy families in Paris, Germany, London, Italy and others. How? They run the Federal Reserve. Since the Federal Reserve is the only for profit business that doesn't get taxed all the trillions of money that we work so hard for the money goes straight into their pockets. Let me tell you what happened to me. I have a condo and I need another door. We all know most condos have associations and my association wants me to get a certain door from certain companies so the association would be satisfied about the outer apperance about my door. The companies they want me to go are very very expense and my broke behind can't afford that. I told them I wanted to go find my own company and now they want to fine me for not having the door up by a certain time. Makes me wonder is this condo really mine or have I let them (the government) brainwashed me into believing if I have a mortgage my place is an asset and it's mine? What about the old guy in Florida who didn't keep his grass green so the association got him put in jail and fined heavily due to him not being able to keep up the greenery. The man was struggling to pay his bills so he got two jobs and was never at home to tend to his yard. This is astrocious when you have to feel like a prisoner in your own home. I'd said that to say this. I believe whole heartedly Obama is going to move this country into one big, fat juicy condo association. The government will give you everything you need but at a cost and most of the time the cost ain't worth it. He wants to take choice out of the american people hands and have the american citizens willingly give up their rights so we can blindly support a psuedo form of communism. Obama is a democrat so he slowly but surely gonna move us more and more into socialism. That's why he was chosen so he can cunningly and slyly take your rights away under your nose. I'm not hating............i'm just saying.........

The words "hater" "haterism" "haterade" has GOTS TO GO!!!

I know it's not just me but i'm sooooooo sick and tired of people of all colors and background using the word, "hater." The way I feel about that word or those similar phrases saying that it's overrated will not do it any justice because it's literally beyond that point of no return. From what I know the word, "hater" was coined from rappers and hip hop artists attempting to give a name to someone who does not respect or follow their agenda. If they are against you are they haters or simply just doesn't want to support you and you want to make them feel bad? I'm sure they're alot of people want to get mad at blogs that specifically "hate" on entertainers such as the hateonbeyonce.blogspot.com or tomcruiseisnuts.com and etc but could you really say they're "haters" or exercising their first amendment rights to say what they will as long as it follows EEOC guidelines? We as Americans have become so obsessed with the term we have gotten so delusional about how we supposed to live our life. I don't know about you but I will not live my life just based on what people said I CAN'T do. Are you living your life for me or for you? As alot of these artists, mainly rappers and r&b singers, repeat this word or similar phrases they never really say where the "haters" are what why the "haters" might be so called "hating". You have artists who have never made an album or only been local or underground saying they have "haters." Alot of these entertainers need to go see the doctor and tell him to perscribe them some nigga please because i'm not buying what they're selling. People don't understand the term was birth to make people feel bad for their negative opinions and you suppose to support and love them no matter what. I'm not hating..........i'm just saying.........This word got regular joe blow on the street thinking he got "haters" and this is what our community resulting to? This word has negative connotations behind it and we accepted it as cool. If you have on a pair of shoes and I said I didn't like them does that make me a "hater?" I must have a very strong dislike for your shoes in order for me to hate them so much. That's what the word "hate" means:

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hate 
 /heɪt/ Show Spelled Pronunciation [heyt] Show IPA Pronunciation verb, hat⋅ed, hat⋅ing, noun
–verb (used with object)
1. to dislike intensely or passionately; feel extreme aversion for or extreme hostility toward; detest: to hate the enemy; to hate bigotry.
2. to be unwilling; dislike: I hate to do it. –verb (used without object)
3. to feel intense dislike, or extreme aversion or hostility.–noun
4. intense dislike; extreme aversion or hostility.
5. the object of extreme aversion or hostility.

Now that we have Obama in office we need to raise our level, step our game up and push our weight because this sort of nonsense is beyond stupid and childish when you learn about it. We will not take this ghetto trash anymore. People have to understand we have rights and choices and if you don't like something or against something that doesn't make you a "hater" it makes you a human with a brain that's connected to some nerves that work pretty well. It's almost 2009 and we should take a stand on boycotting or NOT accepting, supporting and celebrating this buffoonery. YES WE CAN!!!!